You are swimming in a sea of time. And at the same time you try to save time by making time for swimming in a sea of time. It is not time you need. It is time you have. It is your most precious resource. For now. With time comes understanding. With understanding comes time. 

You are swimming in a sea of time. 
And at the same time you try to save time 
by making time for swimming in a sea of time. 
It is not time you need. 
It is time you have. 
It is your most precious resource. 
For now. 
With time comes understanding. 
With understanding comes time. 

You can only change, change the world, one life at a time. I only remind you. 

You can only change, 
change the world, 
one life at a time. 

I only remind you. 

A slave who is a slave is no more a slave than a slave who is not a slave. When you judge yourself as a slave, you are. But then, you are your own master. When you see yourself as a master, you are more enslaved than he who is. 

A slave who is a slave 
is no more a slave 
than a slave who is not a slave. 

When you judge yourself as a slave, 
you are. 
But then, you are your own master. 

When you see yourself as a master, 
you are more enslaved 
than he who is. 

To Escape
To escape your prison invest in it. Study the walls built around you. Feel the heavy door keeping you inside. Lay down on its floor holding your weight. Look through the bars preventing a wider view. Unless you know your limitations, escape is impossible. 

To Escape


To escape your prison invest in it. 
Study the walls built around you. 
Feel the heavy door keeping you inside. 
Lay down on its floor holding your weight. 
Look through the bars preventing a wider view. 
Unless you know your limitations, 
escape is impossible. 
Every child is an artist. The problem is how to remain an artist once he grows up.” ― Pablo Picasso

Every child is an artist. The problem is how to remain an artist once he grows up.” 
― Pablo Picasso

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beautflstranger:

A  Dom asked for my council..
He apparently had been in a relationship online with a woman and had invested quite a bit of time with her, as her Dominant.
He thought things were going well, until she just suddenly stopped answering any communication from him.
He was hurt and confused and asked if he was a horrible person and why would she do that and what should his best approach be.
i advised simple straightforward approach.
An email..(certainly not one begging) but one with a simple lighthearted..
hello..are you there?? I haven’t heard from you!
Or a phone call/text.
Because, as i explained to him, it’s either one of two things.
She might have a serious situation in her life and she either doesn’t know how to let him know or might not wish to share that with him..
or she just didn’t know how to tactfully end it.
I hope that things work out for him one way or the other.
As I said to him, at least he’ll know if it’s a relationship worth pursuing, or if he should just let it go.
I think all of us, at some point in our lives, feel that relationships are 
difficult to navigate and many times we read more into something than we need to.
If you wonder about someone..ask them…directly.
It reminded me of what someone said to me years ago regarding emails
I had sent for business purposes.
The person wrote in an email to me:  ’ i resent your emails’
I was stunned when I read that and sent a note of apology, saying that I wouldn’t send an email again.
The other person sent an email back to me, asking  Why?? What on earth are you talking about???
I explained my reason, that I didn’t wish to have my emails ’ resented’
And got my answer.
It turned out to be a simple thing called a  - hyphen -
and the difference between… re-sent  and resent.
A world of difference that saved a professional relationship.
Communication. 
Simple as that.
All you might need is a hyphen.
~ beautflstranger


perfectly stated Kajira

beautflstranger:

A  Dom asked for my council..

He apparently had been in a relationship online with a woman and had invested quite a bit of time with her, as her Dominant.

He thought things were going well, until she just suddenly stopped answering any communication from him.

He was hurt and confused and asked if he was a horrible person and why would she do that and what should his best approach be.

i advised simple straightforward approach.

An email..(certainly not one begging) but one with a simple lighthearted..

hello..are you there?? I haven’t heard from you!

Or a phone call/text.

Because, as i explained to him, it’s either one of two things.

She might have a serious situation in her life and she either doesn’t know how to let him know or might not wish to share that with him..

or she just didn’t know how to tactfully end it.

I hope that things work out for him one way or the other.

As I said to him, at least he’ll know if it’s a relationship worth pursuing, or if he should just let it go.

I think all of us, at some point in our lives, feel that relationships are 

difficult to navigate and many times we read more into something than we need to.

If you wonder about someone..ask them…directly.

It reminded me of what someone said to me years ago regarding emails

I had sent for business purposes.

The person wrote in an email to me:  ’ i resent your emails’

I was stunned when I read that and sent a note of apology, saying that I wouldn’t send an email again.

The other person sent an email back to me, asking  Why?? What on earth are you talking about???

I explained my reason, that I didn’t wish to have my emails ’ resented’

And got my answer.

It turned out to be a simple thing called a  - hyphen -

and the difference between… re-sent  and resent.

A world of difference that saved a professional relationship.

Communication. 

Simple as that.

All you might need is a hyphen.

~ beautflstranger

perfectly stated Kajira

your life changes forever

The Power of Submission

To understand the power of submission, one must first understand what being a submissive means, where it comes from and how it is expressed.

True submission is something that comes from deep within a person and is an essential part of their nature. It is something expressed from the soul and as such, it goes much deeper than the mere physical/sexual act of offering ones-self to a Master for pleasure. A person can behave in a submissive manner but this is not the same as being “a submissive.”

To offer oneself completely and utterly to another, to surrender all choices and “power” requires and exceptional inner strength. High self esteem and a knowledge that in order to relinquish power to another as well as understanding that one must possess that inner power is essential.

Enough

I have had enough of people  Of lifeI have had enough of the noisesWe make on cueThe buttons pressedThe buzzes and whirsThat always fizzleThe righteous angerAnd the bloodlust masquerading as factThe hopeless treadmill of pleasureAnd this glass of high proof alcoholThat disinfects my heart

I have had enough of people  
Of life
I have had enough of the noises
We make on cue
The buttons pressed
The buzzes and whirs
That always fizzle
The righteous anger
And the bloodlust masquerading as fact
The hopeless treadmill of pleasure
And this glass of high proof alcohol
That disinfects my heart

The soul is what I crave and yearn for most. I want to lie next to youand look deep into your eyes and look beyond your physical beauty.I want to be able to sink into your soul and fall in love with your thoughts and mind. The way your mind thinks leaves me speechless.You’re so creative and full of color there’s nothing about you that’s dull.I want to make love to you not just to your body but your mind, the mindis like a canvas a blank canvas which you have to color yourself.

The soul is what I crave and yearn for most. I want to lie next to you
and look deep into your eyes and look beyond your physical beauty.
I want to be able to sink into your soul and fall in love with your 
thoughts and mind. The way your mind thinks leaves me speechless.
You’re so creative and full of color there’s nothing about you that’s dull.
I want to make love to you not just to your body but your mind, the mind
is like a canvas a blank canvas which you have to color yourself.

Child

Your clear eye is the one absolutely beautiful thing.I want to fill it with color and ducks,The zoo of the newWhose name you meditate —April snowdrop, Indian pipe,LittleStalk without wrinkle,Pool in which imagesShould be grand and classicalNot this troublousWringing of hands, this darkCeiling without a star.

Your clear eye is the one absolutely beautiful thing.
I want to fill it with color and ducks,
The zoo of the new

Whose name you meditate —
April snowdrop, Indian pipe,
Little

Stalk without wrinkle,
Pool in which images
Should be grand and classical

Not this troublous
Wringing of hands, this dark
Ceiling without a star.

Tags: sylvia plath

We Joke Sometimes

We joke sometimes about falling in love, we talk in deep detail about our romance;the kind of house we want, the name of the family dog, would we rather have boys or girls,and we argue over who will stay home to raise the kids, I always let you win.We joke sometimes about growing old together; we talk about thinning hair,wrinkling skin, tired eyes and energized grand kids. We promise to one another that we will stay in love,still hold hands, hug each other tightlyand kiss both daily and nightlyWe joke sometimes about a life we could be livingand I just want you to know that I am not always kidding.

We joke sometimes 
about falling in love, 
we talk in deep detail 
about our romance;
the kind of house we want, 
the name of the family dog, 
would we rather have boys or girls,
and we argue over who will stay home 
to raise the kids, I always let you win.

We joke sometimes 
about growing old together; 
we talk about thinning hair,
wrinkling skin, tired eyes 
and energized grand kids. 
We promise to one another 
that we will stay in love,
still hold hands, hug each other tightly
and kiss both daily and nightly

We joke sometimes 
about a life we could be living
and I just want you to know 
that I am not always kidding.

Love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking together in the same direction. –Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, Wind, Sand, and Stars

Love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking together in the same direction. –Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, Wind, Sand, and Stars

In short: love is dangerous. So love dangerously

Physical pleasure is a sensual experience no different from pure seeing or the pure sensation with which a fine fruit fills the tongue; it is a great unending experience, which is given us, a knowing of the world, the fullness and the glory of all knowing. And not our acceptance of it is bad; the bad thing is that most people misuse and squander this experience and apply it as a stimulant at the tired spots of their lives and as distraction instead of a rallying toward exalted moments.

Physical pleasure is a sensual experience no different from pure seeing or the pure sensation with which a fine fruit fills the tongue; it is a great unending experience, which is given us, a knowing of the world, the fullness and the glory of all knowing. And not our acceptance of it is bad; the bad thing is that most people misuse and squander this experience and apply it as a stimulant at the tired spots of their lives and as distraction instead of a rallying toward exalted moments.