Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I’m not cute or built to suit a model’s fashion size But when I start to tell them They think I’m telling lies. I say It’s in the reach of my arms The span of my hips The stride of my steps The curl of my lips. I’m a woman Phenomenally Phenomenal woman That’s me. I walk into a room Just as cool as you please And to a man The fellows stand or Fall down on their knees Then they swarm around me A hive of honey bees. I say It’s the fire in my eyes And the flash of my teeth The swing of my waist And the joy in my feet. I’m a woman Phenomenal woman That’s me. Men themselves have wondered What they see in me They try so much But they can’t touch My inner mystery. When I try to show them They say they still can’t see. I say It’s in the arch of my back The sun of my smile The ride of my breasts The grace of my style. I’m a woman Phenomenally Phenomenal woman That’s me. Now you understand Just why my head’s not bowed I don’t shout or jump about Or have to talk real loud When you see me passing It ought to make you proud. I say It’s in the click of my heels The bend of my hair The palm of my hand The need for my care. ‘Cause I’m a woman Phenomenally Phenomenal woman That’s me.
Maya Angelou

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies 
I’m not cute or built to suit a model’s fashion size 
But when I start to tell them 
They think I’m telling lies. 
I say 
It’s in the reach of my arms 
The span of my hips 
The stride of my steps 
The curl of my lips. 
I’m a woman 
Phenomenally 
Phenomenal woman 
That’s me. 

I walk into a room 
Just as cool as you please 
And to a man 
The fellows stand or 
Fall down on their knees 
Then they swarm around me 
A hive of honey bees. 
I say 
It’s the fire in my eyes 
And the flash of my teeth 
The swing of my waist 
And the joy in my feet. 
I’m a woman 
Phenomenal woman 
That’s me. 

Men themselves have wondered 
What they see in me 
They try so much 
But they can’t touch 
My inner mystery. 
When I try to show them 
They say they still can’t see. 
I say 
It’s in the arch of my back 
The sun of my smile 
The ride of my breasts 
The grace of my style. 
I’m a woman 
Phenomenally 
Phenomenal woman 
That’s me. 

Now you understand 
Just why my head’s not bowed 
I don’t shout or jump about 
Or have to talk real loud 
When you see me passing 
It ought to make you proud. 
I say 
It’s in the click of my heels 
The bend of my hair 
The palm of my hand 
The need for my care. 
‘Cause I’m a woman 
Phenomenally 
Phenomenal woman 
That’s me.

Maya Angelou

In the United States, 1.3 women are raped every minute. That results in 78 rapes each hour, 1872 rapes each day, 56160 rapes each month and 683,280 rapes each year.1 out of every 3 American women will besexually assaulted in her lifetime.
What is even more worrying to me is the thought that for every man who rapes there must be many who would rape if it were not such a major crime, or would rape if they thought they could get away with it socially.
These men, the rapists, and the many more who have a nugget of rape in their thoughts, see women as sex objects and nothing else.
Devotional Sex is the opposite of this mentality. The Tantric component of Devotional Sex says that even some play with a friend is about connection. Connection is what is missing in most porn. (Connection is one thing I look for when choosing photos for this blog.)
It seems that for many people a woman who enjoys her sexuality is a slut, sex is dirty, and deep down sex is something to be ashamed of. For many part of their excitement of sex derives from breaking the taboos of respectability. They think they are loosing their inhibitions if they talk dirty (e.g. “Fuck my cunt harder!).
For me a woman who enjoys her sexuality is a Goddess, sex is good, and sex is never something to be ashamed of. Part of Devotional Sex is breaking away from chaste respectability and becoming comfortable enjoying erotic relaxation (e.g. A Princess having her naked Knight sit at her feet and give her a foot massage). And with Devotional Sex not only do I encourage slow and sensual instead of fast and disconnected, but I use new words to talk about sex which have no negative associations (e.g. Desire for penis, and Pleasure for vagina).
What needs to change is not just better policing and more convictions, but how men think about women….please exercise choice wisely both you men and women„,
Peace…..Eros

In the United States, 1.3 women are raped every minute. 
That results in 78 rapes each hour, 1872 rapes each day, 
56160 rapes each month and 683,280 rapes each year.

1 out of every 3 American women will be
sexually assaulted in her lifetime.

What is even more worrying to me is the thought that for every man who rapes there must be many who would rape if it were not such a major crime, or would rape if they thought they could get away with it socially.

These men, the rapists, and the many more who have a nugget of rape in their thoughts, see women as sex objects and nothing else.

Devotional Sex is the opposite of this mentality. The Tantric component of Devotional Sex says that even some play with a friend is about connection. Connection is what is missing in most porn. (Connection is one thing I look for when choosing photos for this blog.)

It seems that for many people a woman who enjoys her sexuality is a slut, sex is dirty, and deep down sex is something to be ashamed of. For many part of their excitement of sex derives from breaking the taboos of respectability. They think they are loosing their inhibitions if they talk dirty (e.g. “Fuck my cunt harder!).

For me a woman who enjoys her sexuality is a Goddess, sex is good, and sex is never something to be ashamed of. Part of Devotional Sex is breaking away from chaste respectability and becoming comfortable enjoying erotic relaxation (e.g. A Princess having her naked Knight sit at her feet and give her a foot massage). And with Devotional Sex not only do I encourage slow and sensual instead of fast and disconnected, but I use new words to talk about sex which have no negative associations (e.g. Desire for penis, and Pleasure for vagina).

What needs to change is not just better policing and more convictions, but how men think about women….please exercise choice wisely both you men and women„,

Peace…..Eros

For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time. Isabel Allende

For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time. 

Isabel Allende



“Womanhood is a wonderful thing. In womankind we find the mothers ofthe race.There is no man so great, nor none sunk so low, but once helay a helpless, innocent babe in a woman’s arms and was dependent onher love and care for his existence. It is woman who rocks the cradleof the world and holds the first affections of mankind. She possessesa power beyond that of a king on his throne.Womanhood stands for all that is pure and clean and noble. She whodoes not make the world better for having lived in it has failed to beall that a woman should be.”- Mabel Hale“Beautiful Girlhood”
  • “Womanhood is a wonderful thing. In womankind we find the mothers of
    the race.There is no man so great, nor none sunk so low, but once he
    lay a helpless, innocent babe in a woman’s arms and was dependent on
    her love and care for his existence. It is woman who rocks the cradle
    of the world and holds the first affections of mankind. She possesses
    a power beyond that of a king on his throne.

    Womanhood stands for all that is pure and clean and noble. She who
    does not make the world better for having lived in it has failed to be
    all that a woman should be.”

    - Mabel Hale
    “Beautiful Girlhood”
On the subject of women on top
This position provides the woman with a great deal of control, and for women who find themselves able to reach orgasm through intercourse alone this position may be the easiest one for that to happen in. For women who have a healthy amount of sexual self-confidence, and are so inclined, it’s also a great position to tease and talk dirty to their partner in.
If you and your partner are going to be having sex for a long period of time, it also makes sense to switch between this position and one of the others so that everyone gets a turn lying down.
Of course, the partner on the bottom doesn’t have to be completely inactive: rhythmic thrusts, as long as they’re in rhythm with what his partner is doing, can be a positive thing.
Obviously this position provides good opportunity for clitoral stimulation, as the woman can simply lean back a little bit, supporting herself with one arm and working her clit with her other hand. And who doesn’t enjoy a nice, sexy show from time to time?

On the subject of women on top

This position provides the woman with a great deal of control, and for women who find themselves able to reach orgasm through intercourse alone this position may be the easiest one for that to happen in. For women who have a healthy amount of sexual self-confidence, and are so inclined, it’s also a great position to tease and talk dirty to their partner in.

If you and your partner are going to be having sex for a long period of time, it also makes sense to switch between this position and one of the others so that everyone gets a turn lying down.

Of course, the partner on the bottom doesn’t have to be completely inactive: rhythmic thrusts, as long as they’re in rhythm with what his partner is doing, can be a positive thing.

Obviously this position provides good opportunity for clitoral stimulation, as the woman can simply lean back a little bit, supporting herself with one arm and working her clit with her other hand. And who doesn’t enjoy a nice, sexy show from time to time?

Our love has been the thread through the labyrinth, the net under the high-wire walker, the only real thing in this strange life of mine that I could ever trust. Tonight I feel that my love for you has more density in this world than I do, myself: as though it could linger on after me and surround you, keep you, hold you. –Audrey Niffenegger, The Time Traveler’s Wife

Our love has been the thread through the labyrinth, the net under the high-wire walker, the only real thing in this strange life of mine that I could ever trust. Tonight I feel that my love for you has more density in this world than I do, myself: as though it could linger on after me and surround you, keep you, hold you. –Audrey Niffenegger, The Time Traveler’s Wife

When in a true  relationship, a real gentleman DOM man doesn’t make his woman jealous of other submissives, he makes other submissives jealous of his  woman

Her Reality:Being a 24/7 Slave
D/s is my reality. It is not a fantasy. It is not a game that we do whenever we feel like. It is threads woven into all of my life. There is not an area of my life that D/s does not affect- does not touch. If we were not to have BDSM play for a week or the BDSM was just taken away, the D/s is still there 24/7. The submission would still be there. The Dominance and the control from my Master would still be there. The Power exchange would still be there. The D/s might be turned down a bit but it is NEVER turned off. It can be turned back up when and how my Master prefers it. The way we do that is by having different levels of Protocols - different levels of intensity in the D/s. My Master determines my behavior and the protocol levels. There might be days when I do not feel like being a slave, but I still am. I do not get to pick and chose when I can be slave and when I cannot. Now of course saying that does not mean I do not have bad days. I always have my submission, there just happens to be days where I want to say “Master, get it yourself.” And there have even been a few days where I have said things similar to that. But that is not acceptable behavior. And really it hurts me more in the long run when I let that kind of attitude takes over.

Her Reality:Being a 24/7 Slave

D/s is my reality. It is not a fantasy. It is not a game that we do whenever we feel like. It is threads woven into all of my life. There is not an area of my life that D/s does not affect- does not touch. If we were not to have BDSM play for a week or the BDSM was just taken away, the D/s is still there 24/7. The submission would still be there. The Dominance and the control from my Master would still be there. The Power exchange would still be there. The D/s might be turned down a bit but it is NEVER turned off. It can be turned back up when and how my Master prefers it. The way we do that is by having different levels of Protocols - different levels of intensity in the D/s. My Master determines my behavior and the protocol levels. There might be days when I do not feel like being a slave, but I still am. I do not get to pick and chose when I can be slave and when I cannot. Now of course saying that does not mean I do not have bad days. I always have my submission, there just happens to be days where I want to say “Master, get it yourself.” And there have even been a few days where I have said things similar to that. But that is not acceptable behavior. And really it hurts me more in the long run when I let that kind of attitude takes over.

“Masquerades disclose the reality of souls. As long as no one sees who we are, we can tell the most intimate details of our life. I sometimes muse over this sketch of a story—about a man afflicted by one of those personal tragedies born of extreme shyness … … who one day, while wearing a mask I don’t know where, told another mask all the most personal, most secret, most unthinkable things that could be told about his tragic and serene life. And since no outward detail would give him away, he having disguised even his voice, and since he didn’t take careful note of whoever had listened to him, he could enjoy the ample sensation of knowing that somewhere in the world there was someone who knew him as not even his closest and finest friend did. When he walked down the street he would ask himself if this person, or that one, or that person over there might not be the one to whom he’d once, wearing a mask, told his most private life. Thus would be born in him a new interest in each person, since each person might be his only, unknown confidant. And his crowning glory would be if the whole of that sorrowful life he’d told were, from start to finish, absolutely false.” 
― Fernando Pessoa

I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; so I love you because I know no other way that this: where I does not exist, nor you, so close that your hand on my chest is my hand, so close that your eyes close as I fall asleep.
— Pablo Neruda

I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; so I love you because I know no other way that this: where I does not exist, nor you, so close that your hand on my chest is my hand, so close that your eyes close as I fall asleep.

— Pablo Neruda

Truth is, he made my body melt away. Until all that was left was my heart, my tongue and every once in a while my brain joined in.

Truth is, he made my body melt away. Until all that was left was my heart, my tongue and every once in a while my brain joined in.

Women keep a special corner of their hearts for sins they have never committed. 

— Cornelia Otis Skinner

the things Daddy could show you Little One..

Among other things, you’ll find that you’re not the first person who was ever confused and frightened and even sickened by human behaviour. You’re by no means alone on that score, you’ll be excited and stimulated to know. Many, many men have been just as troubled morally and spiritually as you are right now. Happily, some of them kept records of their troubles. You’ll learn from them—if you want to. Just as some day, if you have something to offer, someone will learn something from you. It’s a beautiful reciprocal arrangement. And it isn’t education. It’s history. It’s poetry.
- J. D. Salinger

Among other things, you’ll find that you’re not the first person who was ever confused and frightened and even sickened by human behaviour. You’re by no means alone on that score, you’ll be excited and stimulated to know. Many, many men have been just as troubled morally and spiritually as you are right now. Happily, some of them kept records of their troubles. You’ll learn from them—if you want to. Just as some day, if you have something to offer, someone will learn something from you. It’s a beautiful reciprocal arrangement. And it isn’t education. It’s history. It’s poetry.

- J. D. Salinger

Your mouth is an erogenous zone, no question about it - but in its entirety. The back of your mouth, tongue, palate and throat have a different range and number of nerve endings than the sensitive front of your mouth, but they transmit messages of pleasure to your brain and genitals just the same. Sucking (suckling) and swallowing in an erotic context stimulates nerve pathways whose function is to build on your arousal levels, including the production of the arousal hormone, oxytocin. We get physical gratification from oral stimulation and we get it in spades when we swallow our lover to the root.
—  Violet Blue

Your mouth is an erogenous zone, no question about it - but in its entirety. The back of your mouth, tongue, palate and throat have a different range and number of nerve endings than the sensitive front of your mouth, but they transmit messages of pleasure to your brain and genitals just the same. Sucking (suckling) and swallowing in an erotic context stimulates nerve pathways whose function is to build on your arousal levels, including the production of the arousal hormone, oxytocin. We get physical gratification from oral stimulation and we get it in spades when we swallow our lover to the root.

—  Violet Blue