“The probability of separate worlds meeting is very small. The lure of it is immense. We send starships. We fall in love.”
— ~Jeanette Winterson, Gut Symmetries

The probability of separate worlds meeting is very small. The lure of it is immense. We send starships. We fall in love.”

— ~Jeanette Winterson, Gut Symmetries

MEN are afraid of women and don’t show up as a masculine man around women. We’re often particularly afraid of women’s emotions, and this all stems from being stuck emotionally back with mum. When we were a boy we sought love from our mother, and the fear was that if mum didn’t love us we’d be alone and we’d die, so we did anything we could to get love and attention from her. We run stories about our mother in our heads that keep us stuck in this pattern which we project onto all the other women in our life.
~ Graham Stoney
  • MEN are afraid of women and don’t show up as a masculine man around women. We’re often particularly afraid of women’s emotions, and this all stems from being stuck emotionally back with mum. When we were a boy we sought love from our mother, and the fear was that if mum didn’t love us we’d be alone and we’d die, so we did anything we could to get love and attention from her. We run stories about our mother in our heads that keep us stuck in this pattern which we project onto all the other women in our life.

    ~ Graham Stoney

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“Many women find it erotic when you describe the changes in her genitals as she becomes aroused. Use pretty language like, “I can see your lips turning dusky pink with a deeper lavender edging them like a beautiful butterfly.” This verbal approval engenders confidence and helps her get more turned on.”

Many women find it erotic when you describe the changes in her genitals as she becomes aroused. Use pretty language like, “I can see your lips turning dusky pink with a deeper lavender edging them like a beautiful butterfly.” This verbal approval engenders confidence and helps her get more turned on.”

“Men must understand that when they are touching a woman they are touching her either as a way of promoting her well being or they are adding insult to previous injury. And the way for them to be clear that they are adding something through their touch that is helpful to her is to make sure that whenever they touch a woman with any part of themselves… that they become a part of what they are touching and all of their consciousness is in the slightest of touches.”

Men must understand that when they are touching a woman they are touching her either as a way of promoting her well being or they are adding insult to previous injury. And the way for them to be clear that they are adding something through their touch that is helpful to her is to make sure that whenever they touch a woman with any part of themselves… that they become a part of what they are touching and all of their consciousness is in the slightest of touches.”

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“Sex is more than an act of pleasure, its’ the ability to be able to feel so close to a person, so connected, so comfortable that it’s almost breathtaking to the point you feel you can’t take it. And at this moment you’re a part of them.”

Sex is more than an act of pleasure, its’ the ability to be able to feel so close to a person, so connected, so comfortable that it’s almost breathtaking to the point you feel you can’t take it. And at this moment you’re a part of them.”

As we made love for the third day, cloudy and dark, as we did not stopbut went into it and into it anddid not hesitate and did not hold back werose through the air, until we were up abovethe timber line. The lake layicy and silver, the surface shirred,reflecting nothing. The black rockslifted around it into the grainysepia air, the patches of snowbrilliant white, and even though wedid not know where we were, we could notspeak the language, we could hardly see, wedid not stop, rising with the blackrocks to the black hills, the blackmountains rising from the hills. Restingon the crest of the mountains, one hugecloud with scalloped edges of blazingevening light, we did not turn back,we stayed with it, even though we werefar beyond what we knew, we roseinto the grain of the cloud, even though we werefrightened, the air hollow, even thoughnothing grew there, even though it is aplace from which no one has ever come back.–Sharon Olds, “Ecstasy”

As we made love for the third day, 
cloudy and dark, as we did not stop
but went into it and into it and
did not hesitate and did not hold back we
rose through the air, until we were up above
the timber line. The lake lay
icy and silver, the surface shirred,
reflecting nothing. The black rocks
lifted around it into the grainy
sepia air, the patches of snow
brilliant white, and even though we
did not know where we were, we could not
speak the language, we could hardly see, we
did not stop, rising with the black
rocks to the black hills, the black
mountains rising from the hills. Resting
on the crest of the mountains, one huge
cloud with scalloped edges of blazing
evening light, we did not turn back,
we stayed with it, even though we were
far beyond what we knew, we rose
into the grain of the cloud, even though we were
frightened, the air hollow, even though
nothing grew there, even though it is a
place from which no one has ever come back.
–Sharon Olds, “Ecstasy”




I want to put myself absolutely at your mercy for good or evil without any condition, without any limit to your power. — Leopold von Sacher-Masoch

I want to put myself absolutely at your mercy for good or evil without any condition, without any limit to your power. — Leopold von Sacher-Masoch

the important thing in life is to learn to channel
the darkness that resides within your soul

the important thing in life is to learn to channel

the darkness that resides within your soul

lead me not into temptation
I can find my own way

lead me not into temptation

I can find my own way

always fight the temptation to be indifferent my fellow beautiful tumblrs and tumblerettes
The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it’s indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it’s indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it’s indifference.”— Elie Wiesel

always fight the temptation to be indifferent my fellow beautiful tumblrs and tumblerettes

The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it’s indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it’s indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it’s indifference.”
— Elie Wiesel

His voice touches places inside me like someone moving through a house, flicking light switches. … And even if it was dark and there was shellfire or an arctic gale blowing, I’d still be able to understand him, because our thoughts nestle against each other, like pigeons on a wire. –Geraldine McCaughrean, The White Darkness

His voice touches places inside me like someone moving through a house, flicking light switches. … And even if it was dark and there was shellfire or an arctic gale blowing, I’d still be able to understand him, because our thoughts nestle against each other, like pigeons on a wire. –Geraldine McCaughrean, The White Darkness