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A question that lots of new dominants ask  me regularly is what types of punishments they can give to submissives. Most people when they are new tend to focus on spanking, paddling or whipping (this term encompasses quite a lot of implements and is not only done with a whip). There are problems with this form of punishment, as some submissives do not respond well to spanking as a punishment. There are two groups that need to be discussed here. The first group is the masochistic submissives or as we affectionately call them, the pain sluts. These submissives love to be hurt and spanking them is something they want. It is no punishment and sometimes they would even push a dominant into punishing them, just to get the thrill of that spanking. What would you do with someone like that? You withhold any form of pain play from them for a fixed period of time and you do not relent. Just like not being able to watch television upset your teenagers when they were growing up, taking away the prime motivator for a masochist should bring him or her back in line fairly quickly.

A question that lots of new dominants ask  me regularly is what types of punishments they can give to submissives. Most people when they are new tend to focus on spanking, paddling or whipping (this term encompasses quite a lot of implements and is not only done with a whip). There are problems with this form of punishment, as some submissives do not respond well to spanking as a punishment. There are two groups that need to be discussed here.

The first group is the masochistic submissives or as we affectionately call them, the pain sluts. These submissives love to be hurt and spanking them is something they want. It is no punishment and sometimes they would even push a dominant into punishing them, just to get the thrill of that spanking. What would you do with someone like that? You withhold any form of pain play from them for a fixed period of time and you do not relent. Just like not being able to watch television upset your teenagers when they were growing up, taking away the prime motivator for a masochist should bring him or her back in line fairly quickly.

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