On the subject of how hard BDSM relationships can be:
BDSM relationships are actually harder in some aspects because of the amount of trust that is involved. You are trusting this person with secrets that some hide from their closest friends and family. Submissives also trust their bodies and minds to the Dominant that they have chosen. Dominants are in a stressful position because We are charged with the sub/slaves health, safety and well-being both mental and physical. This is not something that We take lightly.

On the subject of how hard BDSM relationships can be:

BDSM relationships are actually harder in some aspects because of the amount of trust that is involved. You are trusting this person with secrets that some hide from their closest friends and family. Submissives also trust their bodies and minds to the Dominant that they have chosen. Dominants are in a stressful position because We are charged with the sub/slaves health, safety and well-being both mental and physical. This is not something that We take lightly.