A Submissive’s Mantra
i will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. i realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Master and i from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm.
i will try not to manipulate my Master. i will not push to make a scene go the way i feel it should
i will keep an open mind about trying things that i am not comfortable with and expanding my limits. i will continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being.
i will accept the responsibility of discovering what pleases my Master, and will do my best to fulfill His wishes and desires.
i will not allow myself to be harmed and abused. i know that submissive does not equal doormat.
i will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives. i will share my knowledge and experience with others in the hope that they will learn and benefit from where i have been. i will take the time to help those who are new to start out on the correct path.
i will be responsive to my Master. i will not try to hide what my mind and body are feeling so that i may assist Him in His responsibilities as my authority. i know that Dominants are not telepaths, and will not expect my Master to know thoughts or feelings which i do not share.
i will accept in the responsibility of a scene or a relationship gone bad. i will not place total blame on my Master when it is not warranted simply because He is the Dominant. i realize that things may not work out as they should sometimes, and will do my best to put it behind me and move on
i will give my gift of submission only to Those that can responsibly accept and desire to receive. i will not place anyone in the position of controlling me non-consensually, nor will i give my respect to someone that has not earned it.
i know that D/s is not a contest, and will never think myself a “better” submissive because i choose to submit on a different level than another. i will not be boastful of my experiences.
i will be obedient to my Master even if i disagree with what He is requesting. i realize He has my best interests at heart and often knows better than i what i need in a particular situation. i know that my actions reflect upon my Master, and will do my best to help others see Him in a positive way. i will not intentionally embarrass or displease Him.
Above all, will wear my title of submissive with honor. i will never cause others to think that being submissive means to be weak or sub-human. i will take pride in who and what i am and will never show myself in a negative way.